The Violator is a big, veiny thrusting dildo built for people who want push-in-and-out motion plus vibration, not just buzz. It runs 13 total modes between thrusting patterns and vibration speeds, and at 9.5 insertable inches with a 3-inch max width, it's on the larger end, so go slow the first time.

• 9.5 inches insertable, 14.25 inches total with the handle, 3 inches at the widest point
• 13 modes: mix of steady vibration speeds and pulsing thrust patterns
• Textured, veiny shaft for extra sensation on the way in and out
• Molded grip handle so you're not white-knuckling a slick shaft mid-session
• Works solo or with a partner, hands-free if you prop it right

Materials and care: PVC and ABS body with metal internal parts, finished in black. It's not fully waterproof, so wipe it down with a water-based toy cleaner and skip full submersion. Use water-based lube; silicone lube will degrade the material over time. Runs on 4 AAA batteries, sold separately.

Worth knowing before you buy: this is a big toy, not a beginner size, and the motor has some hum to it, so it's not the quietest option if walls are thin. The handle end means it's better for manual control than for rigging up hands-free with a harness.

FAQ

Is 9.5 inches insertable too much for a first-timer?

Probably, yes. This is a girth-and-length toy for people who already know they like size. If you're new to toys, start smaller and work up.

Can I use it in the shower or bath?

No. The battery compartment and motor aren't sealed for submersion, so keep it to surface wipe-downs with a damp cloth and toy cleaner, not a soak.

Does it actually thrust, or is that just marketing for vibration patterns?

It's vibration and pulsing patterns, not a mechanical in-and-out thrust like a motorized thrusting machine. You control the real thrusting motion yourself using the handle.